Ok..i noe i write superlong posts..too long for u? SKIP IT
duno y i haf so much to say and to ask nowadays...just gotta get it off my chest...
was out wif a close friend of mine today..he got attached about 2 months ago...the last time i heard from him..he was so madly in love..proclaiming that the girl was different from all his ex-es..that she was the love of his life..den today he said something else..he said,"maybe it's a guy thing..like we'll never be satisfied with wat we haf..that no matter how sweet and green the grass on our side is..we'l almost always be sick of it sometime later and feel that grasses elsewhere would be sweeter and even greener..it's not like i dont like her anymore..it's more like the gan jue's gradually disappearing.."
Hmm...what do u guys think?
Anyway..i asked him if he's gona break up again..he said no..he's tired of the courtship busines..n would probably stay with her cause he's used to having her around already..unless he has the opportunity to get other greener grass..
y are guys like that?
isnt there a relationship that'l continue blossoming?
isnt there any relationship that isnt just i'l-stick-wif-u-cos-i'm-used-to-having-u-ard-thou-our-love's-sizzled-out?
Isnt there anymore relationships left that are really like fairytale stories where couples will really live happily everafter even after the honeymoon period?
what happens to the poor girl if some other girl who requires little courtship and makes it easier for the guy to not feel the need to stick ard?Even if no such girl appear..wouldnt the relationship b so dry that makes staying together pointless?
sigh..after seeing so many of my guy friends feeling this way..at least 4...i really pity girls..y are girls in relationships so dumb?Y are so many guys jerks?that's not how relationship works..right?If so..singlehood would be so much better..no commitments..no curfews..no 10 commandments to restrict ur every move..no nid to consider about the other half..no worries..lesser wrinkles..
if one is to get into relationships..there should be nothing called honeymoon period...coz it's supposed to be honeymoon all the way till u two die..when i see these friends getting in and out of relationships like nobody's business..i pity the girls..ok...most girls...apparently girls are usually the ones who suffer the most after the breakups..
mayb it's because those that i spoke to are guys so far..mayb not all guys are like that..hope none of u are like that..or even haf this kinda thinking..
this song's going out to the girls out there..those who..hopefully will find their princes like those in fairytales..hopefully u guys'l b like the princes in fairytales and not break a girl's heart..
<<"Frogs & Princes"
The in and out of dating got me all confused
I built up expectations and I'm feeling used
Seems that everybody's into fast food,
Everybody's into quick
I want someone to take the time fine dining not rushing
Now it's nearly 7:30, I'm slipping on a dress
I keep my fingers crossed, you're not like all the rest,
So when you come to pick me up come right to my door
Don't stay in your car and beep beep the horn
Baby I'm a hopeless romantic
You pick the sounds for the background to our drive into town
Baby don't be one of the traffic
Had too many nights with the wrong guys
Caught me at red lights
*chorus*Tell me how many frogs do I have to kiss
Before I find my prince, before I find my prince
All you girls that are going through this
Tell 'em how it is, tell 'em how it is
Pull up to a premire, red carpet good
You take my coat, get my chair, like I hoped you would
You're funny and your flirting is really working for me
But where it goes from here
Better wait and see
Baby I'm a hopeless romantic
You pick the view to kiss to
Make me go ooo ooo
And baby it'll all turn out tragic
And you'll push for more
Back at my front door
More than I'm ready for
*chorus*
You gotta tip the waiter, that's how it works
You cant skip the starter and go straight to desert
You've gotta pop the cork before you taste the wine
is woah,
We get hooked up but the shame is
Too much connection followed by rejections
Gonna hurt a girl 'til she learns her lesson
*chorus* >>
GUYS DONT BE FROGS!!
Those 4 girls who met frogs..this is for u..
<<"Single"
Ah yeah that's right All you single people out there This is for you
I'm not waitin' around for a man to save me
(Cos I'm happy where I am)
Don't depend on a guy to validate me (No no)
I don't need to be anyone's baby (Is that so hard to understand?)
No I don't need another half to make me whole
Make your move if you want doesn't mean I will or won't
I'm free to make my mind up you either got it or you don't
[Chorus:]This is my current single status
My declaration of independence
There's no way I'm tradin' places
Right now a star's in the ascendant I'm single (Right now)
That's how I wanna be I'm single (Right now)
That's how I wanna be Ah yeah Uh Huh that's right
Don't need to be on somebody's arm to look good (I like who I am)
I'm not saying I don't wanna fall in love 'cos I would
I'm not gonna get hooked up just 'cos you say I should (Can't romance on demand)
I'm gonna wait so I'm sorry if you misunderstood
[Chorus]
Everything in it's right time everything in it's right place
I know I'll settle down one day
But 'til then I like it this way it's my way Eh I like it this way
Make your move if you want doesn't mean I will or won't
I'm free to make my mind up you either got it or you don't
'Til then I'm single This is my current single status
My declaration of independence There's no way I'm tradin' places
Right now a star's in the ascendant>>
WE DONT NEED SUCH GUYS!!
